Who could have imagined that my biggest source of frustration so far would emanate from… other physicians. That is, if surgeons are really physicians and not just technicians.
A physician is respectful of her/his patients – does not make jokes about their age, refer to them as ancient, nor sneer when speaking to family members. A physician does not ignore standards of care when managing postoperative pain – the very pain she/he inflicted. In fact a physician cares about the well-being of his patient beyond the organ or disease or injury he is trying to treat; listens to input of others involved in the patient’s care (nurses, therapists, even lowly family members who know the patient’s baseline health care status best); and takes time to conduct more than cursory examination of the wound site (perhaps then he could recognize the signs of significant blood loss).
Yes, it is a rare surgeon who also is a physician. Fortunately for Dad, my not-so-subtle involvement in his care has brought a hospitalist to his bedside so I can sleep tonight without worrying that he is suffering needlessly or at risk of complications because a real physician is not available 24 hours a day during his recovery.
Closing rant summary:
A surgeon at a top ranking medical facility is not necessarily a good physician.
Families must be ever vigilant in their loved ones’ (and their own) medical care.
No amount of health care reform will make a good physician out of someone with a medical degree.